Sunday, 23 July 2017

Gratitude List

Things I'm grateful for this month:

Summer! We've been getting nice, summery weather lately.
Iced coffees
Everyday LOA Magic's A State of Happy course- currently taking it.
My boy cat. <3
Positive online connections
New series of Teen Mom UK starting this week
The book How to Be Well by Abby Wynne
Brighton Marina

Monday, 26 June 2017

Design Your Universe- Part 2

This is a follow on to my post Design Your Universe- Part 1 which is about using of the Law of Attraction (LOA) to create the life of your dreams. This is a work in progress for me and I'm doing a series of posts on the process.

Note: This is what I've been doing and it's not the definite way to do anything, so just take what you resonate with :)

In my first post I outlined two steps:

1. Feel better.
2. Change your beliefs and believe that your dreams can come true.

I may add more to this in the future but it's what I've been working on for a while now. Please see the original post (linked above) for more on them.

In Part 1 I said that I would write more about tools in Part 2. So here we go. :)

Sunday, 25 June 2017

Gratitude List

Things I'm gratful for this month:

Roses in my garden
Library books
Litha/the start of summer
Mayberry Garden Centre
Summer drinks
Rose and honeysuckle hand cream- I recently found a tube I'd lost a while ago!
Tess Whitehurst books


My local vets. :)

Monday, 5 June 2017

The Love Project- Romantic Love (Relationships and Anxiety)

Back in December I did the latest post in The love Project series, on the subject of romantic love. You can read it here:

Then I wrote about feeling shame over being single. Today I want to address anxiety in relationships. As I've mentioned before I have anxiety. The main issue I have is health anxiety (HA) but I also have general anxiety and a bit of social anxiety. This can make it hard to socialise and connect with others. I'm also wary of forming relationships due to negtative past experiences with friendships and probably because of my early family life as well.

Dating with anxiety

I've not been on many dates and when I have met up with someone it was more of a friendship thing. I was extremely nervous when I did meet up with a man but at least I know I am able to do it. Going on dates is something I'd like to explore more of, so that's what I've been thinking about lately.

I recently did an online search for "dating with anxiety" and I came across a couple of useful sites. I find it helpful to see others sharing their experiences with anxiety and in particular dating with anxiety. One blog I found it called The Anxious Girl's Guide To Dating. There are some goods posts on there. Here are a couple:

Sunday, 21 May 2017


In March I started a series of posts called Design Your Universe about the Law of Attraction. I've written one post so far and you can read it here:

Since then I've been planning to carry on but I've been feeling held back in my life lately by my anxiety, in particular health anxiety. I've started the second post but it's not ready yet, so I thought I'd do this post instead. I'll write about my thoughts on creating the life of your dreams and how you can feel held back by challenges, especially mental health.

Monday, 15 May 2017

Gratitude List

Things I'm grateful for this month:

Sunny spring weather
Spending time with my boy cat. :)
McDonald's New York Stack burger
McD's new Raspberry Ripple drink
Tess Whitehurst's The Good Energy Book
Receiving a Joy Box I won during Amina Makhdoom's Joy Challenge!
Doing a performance with my belly dance group BD4U


Winning Luna Press Publishing's' flash fiction competition! My story is Dream Time. :)

Sunday, 9 April 2017

Gratitude List

Things I'm grateful for this month:

Having a new computer mouse and keyboard
Flowers and blossom trees
Warmer weather and longer days
Easter coming up
Amina Makhdoom's Joy Challenge
Inspiring sites and blogs
Choccy eggs! lol